Whether your wife admits it aloud or not, going to a strip club is a brave step for her, so prepare her for a hot date! Both of you should dress nice and encourage her dress sexy. Take her out for a nice dinner before hand so that you can also spend some romantic time together.
Most women that have never been to a strip club before have a very distorted idea of what they are like and what happens there. If your wife has never been to a strip club before, make sure you take her to a classy one for her first experience. You can either take her to a topless club or full nudity, whichever one you think she'll enjoy more. I recommend that you do not take her to a club that allows floor work, since that may be a little too provocative for her first time.
When you choose a table, it's better to sit away from the main stage so that it won't feel as threatening. If the club has multiple stages, make sure your table still has a clear view of the girls performing on the main stage.
Even though there will be lots of bare, naked flesh everywhere, your main focus is to be a gentleman and make your wife the center of attention for the entire evening. She'll be watching to see how you gaze at the girls, so don't be a pig and let her see you drooling! That will only make her feel threatened and insecure. Let her know that you enjoy the eroticism of seeing her watch other women. Encourage her to give the dollar bills to the women she enjoys watching.
Women really do love to admire other women's beautiful bodies, so ask her what she likes. Ask her if there's a specific girl that she would like to have a lap dance from. If she feels like it's too much, too soon, let her know that there does not have to be any touching or friction.
If you ask a dancer to give your wife a lap dance, make sure to tell her that your wife likes her and specifically requested her. Without telling her, she might think that you will be the only one getting off on it. If she knows that she if performing for your wife's pleasure, she will be more sensual and respectful. It will also be extra flattering if you tell her that this will be your wife's first experience receiving a lap dance. Make sure when she receives the lap dance that you focus on her. Let her see you smiling at her, and not the dancer.
After the dance is done, tell her you were very turned on seeing her with another woman. Ask her if she enjoyed it. If she did, encourage her to get another one!
Coming straight from her own experience along with the help of thousands of swingers around the world, Adrienne Taylor is the author of Getting Your Wife Or Girlfriend To Become A Swinger. To GET A FREE GUIDE about swinging visit her web site at: http://www.GetHerToSwing.com
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